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Compassion

I know I haven’t been updating on Ollie’s condition and had been meaning to write a long post this weekend about his positive changes. Unfortunately, though the Little Pug That Could gave it his all, and Claire gave it hers, Ollie lost his battle this evening. He was an amazing and hilarious character to have known and, thanks to him, we were able to make a wonderful pair of friends as well.

I could not have asked for a more perfect foster pug, nor a more perfect set of forever parents to shower him with unconditional love for the last months of his life. I plan to write a bit more about it when I have the time to sit down properly, but wanted to let everyone know. I want to thank everyone for rooting him on and providing Claire and Mike with the thoughts and prayers they needed to get through this, and to everyone who found themselves in a fortunate enough position to donate financially, I want to (proudly) thank you all for raising nearly 15% of his $4,987.00 medial bill.

Once again, the blogging community never ceases to amaze me with it’s heart. So, tonight, in honor of a tubby little pug who gave it his all and charmed endless hearts along the way, hug a pet – and let them know how wonderful it is to share your life with them.

ollie and his mama

ollie and toy

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One Rockin’ Pug.

July 1, 2010 · 6 comments

[edit] It looks like Ollie’s vet bills will be creeping toward $2,000.00 once he undergoes his sonogram(s) on Tuesday. So far, we are rocking this out of the PARK! We are at $398.84 in donations, which is just FRIGGIN’ AWESOME! I’ve also started a ChipIn Page if you’re like me and like to see totals grow, LOL! You can still donate directly to Claire’s PayPal or you can utilize the ChipIn donation tool at the bottom of this post (found at this webby link directly)! [/edit]

One tired pug

Puggy Update! Puggy Update! This just in! Little man Ollie was able to leave the hospital this afternoon and gets to continue this fight from his OWN little bed — or, apparently, couch! Claire and Mike are ECSTATIC! He is headed home on a whopping TWELVE medications and it is still considered a touch-and-go uphill battle, but as Claire put it, “at least he’ll be home with us!”

His blood work is showing slight improvements (that crazy 160, that should be no higher than 25, is now down to 147), he’s starting to eat on his own, etc. The main goal is to make it through the weekend and then on Tuesday, he’ll undergo an ultrasound to get a much better look at where his kidney function really stands —- And all your positive thinking is really doing the trick, because in one afternoon Claire found her wedding dress for under budget, got the phone call to let her know she nabbed her job and then headed to the vet to find out Ollie could come home! I told her at this rate, we’ll find out on Tuesday that Ollie actually has a third kidney and the problems are all solved!

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[puggy update] I wanted to slide in a little update here. Ollie pulled through his first night of hospitalization like the true rockstar he is! Claire also asked I thank everyone who is donating, spreading his message and continues to keep him in their thoughts! Not being a blogger, she texted me at midnight just FLOORED by the generousity of bloggers to animals and wanted to pass along this message: “Thank you to everyone who has donated for Ollie’s sake. He is a fighter, and words can not express what your contributions mean to me. Ollie may be a medical disaster, but he’s a FANTASTIC medical disaster, and I wouldn’t trade him for the world.” [/puggy update]

I don’t typically ask for people to be charitable, but this is a situation in which I simply must.

sir ollie

For those of you who follow my blog, you will recall that Sean and I fostered a wondrous and heart-warming little gentleman pug named Ollie. Ollie is a spunky and loving little old fart with a heart of gold. Ollie had been dealt a pretty rough hand in life. The story the rescue was given was that he had been owned by an older man who was being moved in with his grown children as he became unable to care for himself, and that his grown children did not also want to take in a pug.

The story that they simply didn’t want Ollie began to unravel, and looked more like a case of people who left Ollie as a lone backyard dog, riddled with health issues they no longer felt like treating.

Ollie arrived at the rescue vet from New Orleans with a raging case of both heart worms and intestinal worms. A trooper, he fought through two rounds (!!) of medicine that began to wreak havoc on his little body. He had dry eye that would need daily drops for the rest of his life. He had arthritis. Underweight, he had developed a problem with guarding food — presumably because it came so rarely before. Despite being riddled with “issues”, he was a gem of a pug and we hoped someone could look past his medical needs.

Someone did. An amazingly lovely and compassionate girl named Claire, who was in TX far away from her hometown in MN completeing her Masters, fell in love with Ollie — her first dog!! – and patiently waited for his heartworm treatment to end so she could adopt him. Her thirty day wait turned into FOUR MONTHS. Shortly before we could release him to Claire, Ollie had a seizure. Blood work found nothing but the wait increased. Then his stomach extended. Nothing again. Then we were uncertain his heartworms had entirely cleared. Another round of treatment. I disliked the rescue’s vet choice and felt he was clearly missing something that needed to be addressed, but had little say in the matter. The rescue itself felt Claire ought to just pick another pug and end her prolonged wait, but she refused. She didn’t mind he had issues. She didn’t mind he came a little worn around the edges. She could clearly see this mildly toothless little dude had a world of love inside him and she was prepared to dish it right back.

She even began driving an hour after work and school (she was here in TX getting her Masters and working her days helping children with Autism — like I said, a wonderful person), even if it meant arriving at our house at 10pm only to need to turn around 30 minutes later so she could get up on time to start it again, to pay him visits so he wouldn’t forget her. If she had a bad day, she would call me to see if she could swing by for a little Ollie face time, a little moment with her furry man to cheer her up. I can not emphasize enough how much she LOVES this dog.

But love and money are not the same thing, as I can vouch for having six pets and an endless array of vet needs. Being a student with loans to pay off now, a job to find, and juggling planning and paying for her wedding (SQUEE! To a WONDERFUL man named Mike, btw, who plays the role of Ollie’s dad like nobody’s business), Claire was wise enough to know a pet can mean unexpected costs and did her research. She even was upfront and honest that tackling little medical issues right off the bat was acceptable, but was relying on the rescue’s vet to be upfront and honest with her on what she would really be undertaking — to logically make sure this was something her wallet could handle. She knows a pet means you have zero guarantee what they may actually cost or come down with, but was wisely trying to pick one without any known medical dramas, and the vet gave an all clear — which she patiently waited on and put faith in, because she knew Ollie deserved that.

When he was finally released from medical hold, this rescue’s vet swore up and down he was healthy as a horse, the seizure was one-time, his blood work and x-rays were always fine, ta-da! All she would need to worry about was his daily eye drops and she was good to go! I was wary and had been to hell and back with this vet, but that what was Claire was told.

Incorrectly.

Claire has had Ollie four months. FOUR. MONTHS. In this time, and now off the medicine for heartworm that was suppressing his symptoms, she’s been able to see Ollie’s true array of medical needs. Ollie continues to have seizures — the lame rescue vet was completely wrong. They are scary, but manageable, with daily medication ($$). He has a few other issues that have popped up that she keeps stable with varying medication as well. Definitely a large cost to undertake right off the bat, but Claire does it without a wink. This is her dog. This is her baby. This is just what you do.

Last week, Ollie was sluggish on a walk. He came home and vomited, then refused to eat. Concerned, Claire booked an immediate appointment. They were hit in the face with a huge shock. An x-ray revealed Ollie has developed a lung infection that is quick-developing, meaning she wasn’t given typical signs such as coughing etc. Alongside that, he has terrible spine issues (possibly from abuse, which tells me the first vet never REALLY looked at these supposed x-rays and that the story of Ollie’s past is a crock of you know what), and is having disc degeneration. To compensate, his body is producing excess calcium deposits, which is throwing off his internal balance, basically.

Alongside that, the vet found that Ollie has renal failure. An in-home lab test immediately shocked the vet, as she’s never seen his levels and is amazed he is trekking along as if nothing is wrong. For example, one of his counts should be between 12-25. Ollie burst through that with ONE HUNDRED AND THIRTY. Because of his kidneys, treating him for both his lung infection, back, renal and seizure conditions means they need to take a very careful route, and very pricey one. Traditional medications can’t be used due to the damage on his kidneys. Ollie was taken home with six new medications and a catheter for home IV injections three times a day. They’ve adjusted their schedules to accommodate his new medication needs. Family is coming by to help. Everyone is pulling for this little guy, who is maintaining a peppy attitude as much as he can.

This morning, Ollie took a turn for the worse. He is having bouts of motor control loss and taking nose dives into walls. His symptoms did not improve over the weekend and Claire is back at the vet. His blood work that was sent out has arrived back, with worse news than anyone needs to hear. To keep him pulling through the next few weeks of kidney issues, Ollie is now being hospitalized to be under 24/7 vet care and monitoring. If you’ve ever had a pet that needs to stay at a vet, you’ll know how insanely these charges rack up and how quickly you are spending thousands you just didn’t have, but could never disagree to. The one winning point for all of this is that Ollie’s liver is a rockstar, and helping process the meds that he is taking while under IV care to reduce the strain on his good kidney. There is a wonderful chance he can conquer this and I believe whole heartedly in him.

Through all this, Claire has never once complained. Never once regretted her decision. Never mentioned the cost. Ollie needed love, he needed this other chance at a better life — and goddamnit, they would give it to him. If it means cutting things here and there on her wedding, finding a bigger bad-er job, going for broke — she will do it.

I don’t want her to have to. This is where I am asking you to do what you can, to help offset the current (and incurring) medical costs to help Ollie keep up the good fight. He DESERVES it and I know he can do this. He is NOT a giver-upper. He doesn’t know what quit means, which is evident by his still being here today. You don’t need to know Claire. You don’t even have to like people. You just have to have compassion for someone who has taken a “healthy” pug and given him a new shot on life, despite the bill.

So Please…

If you have a dollar to spare, five bucks, a twenty you didn’t really need? I urge you to donate it via Pay Pal to TallDrinkofWater85@Gmail.com (laugh if you must, but she actually is super tall!)

Don’t have a dime? I totally understand. Pass this message along for free by posting it on your own blog or linking back to my entry. Post on Twitter. Post on your Facebook. It takes just a few moments and would be sincerely appreciated. If nothing else, Claire says she welcomes each and every positive thought and prayer for Ollie!

“Dogs are miracles with paws.”

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Not to sound like a broken record, but having worked cruelty cases for the SPCA, I’ve seen my share of just how terrible people can be — and even how bad things can get for animals when folks aren’t outright evil but are simply unaware or neglectful. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: animal welfare is important for all of us, even those of us who may not have pets or feel concern. Countless studies of and interviews with people who have participated on unfathomable acts of violence against humans have come back with a big trend: starting out with cruelty to animals — be it butterflies, horses, dogs or cats. Starting out by testing their limits and venting frustration in physical manners against things that can not tell, can not report and in many cases, can not fight back.

There is no such thing as a “boys will be boys” rule here; there just isn’t. It’s not in our nature to be hateful or hurtful or enjoy the suffering of another creature — but it is very easily learned and/or tolerated. We’re becoming more numb to it; it’s becoming more acceptable. There is a quote that I love and a big one for parents to take note of, if you ask me: “Teaching a child to not step on a caterpillar is as invaluable to the child as it is to the caterpillar.”

In honor of that spirit, and in honor of February being National Responsible Pet Owners Month, here is the ASPCA’s 10 Ways to Prevent Animal Cruelty (full article can be found here) — I’d also like to add that camera phones and noting dates/times/etc go a LONG way in saving an animal and many reports can be anonymous to avoid backlash:

1. Be aware.
2. Learn to recognize animal cruelty.
3. Know who to call to report animal cruelty.
4. Provide as much as information as possible when reporting animal cruelty.
5. Call or write your local law enforcement department and let them know that investigating animal cruelty should be a priority.
6. Know your state’s animal cruelty laws.
7. Fight for the passage of strong anti-cruelty laws on federal, state and local levels.
8. Set a good example for others.
9. Talk to your kids about how to treat animals with kindness and respect.
10. Support your local shelter or animal rescue organization.

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Love Harder.

January 20, 2010 · 4 comments

“I have never met a person whose greatest need was anything other than real, unconditional love. You can find it in a simple act of kindness toward someone who needs help. There is no mistaking love. You feel it in your heart. It is the common fiber of life, the flame of that heats our soul, energizes our spirit and supplies passion to our lives.” – Elizabeth Kubler-Ross

The quandry: We feel terrible. Horrible. Helpless… if only there was something we could DO for them.

The answer: Ummmm — Did you forget that WE ARE THE INTERNETS?!?!!??!

The result: Brandy and your Hot Awesome Dude… this one’s for you. Love, The Internet.

Our Plea

Our friend Brandy is a brilliant writer, a wonderful teacher and a generous friend.  And she is in love with a man who has just been diagnosed with multiple myeloma.

We are raising money for the Multiple Myeloma Research Fund in his name.  For the price of a cinnamon dolce latte, half-caf, hold the whip, you can be part of an effort to cure a disease that affects approximately 750,000 people worldwide.

http://www.loveharder.org

Every dollar brings us a dollar closer to a cure.  And every donation brings a sliver of hope to a girl who needs all the hope she can get.

Love Harder,
Brittney Ruscio

What You Can Do

01. Give.  Be part of a worldwide effort to cure a disease that affects approximately 750,000 people worldwide.  Every dollar helps.

02. Pass it on.  Forward this story to five people.  Share this blog post.  Become our fan on Facebook.

03. Love harder.  Life is short, love is unbending, and no one knows what could happen next.  Tell someone you love them today.

Where Your Money Goes

The American Institute of Philanthropy recently named The Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation one of the best organizations to give to in terms of their accountability and use of resources.

By working closely with researchers, clinicians and partners in the biotech and pharmaceutical industry, the MMRF has helped bring multiple myeloma patients four new treatments that are extending lives around the globe.

The MMRF has advanced twenty Phase I and Phase II clinical trials. They need your support to advance these clinical research programs and accelerate the development of better, more effective treatments.

The MMRF’s Multiple Myeloma Genomics Initiative recently became the first to sequence the multiple myeloma whole genome in its entirety.

A whopping 98% of your donation to the MMRF will be used immediately to support high-priority multiple myeloma research.

With diminishing funding for early stage drug development and the next myeloma treatments not expected to be approved until 2011, the MMRF desperately needs your help.

DONATE: http://www.loveharder.org
CONTACT: theloveharderfund@gmail.com
FACEBOOK: http://facebook.loveharder.org
MORE INFO: http://www.themmrf.org

Continue on to read Brandy’s story…

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